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A Short Lived Relationships

Possible Issues

- You don't have too much trouble finding partners but the relationship is usually short-lived.

- You fall deeply in love with somebody but all too soon problems arise in the relationship.

- You are continually being left in a relationship.

- You have had a string of one-night-stands that never turn into long-term relationships.

The Cause

Short-lived relationships are usually an indication that you are either choosing the wrong type of person or that your insecurities around relationships are causing you to either leave too early or the other person leaves you before the relationship has had a chance to develop.

A relationship brings us close together with another person both physically and emotionally. Such intimacy will always bring up emotional issues and insecurities that both partners may have subconsciously chosen not to deal with in their lives. When this happens the level of emotional pain increases to the point that one or both partners may bail out rather than deal with the issues. In many cases this spoils what could otherwise develop into a long-term, successful relationship.

The Way Through

If those early feelings of love begin to fade and are replaced by anxiety and uncertainty, do not act too hastily - give the relationship a chance. The key to developing an early relationship is to understand that intimacy will bring up both partner's fears and unhealed emotional issues. You can think of this as the primary purpose of a relationship. These challenges give you the opportunity to grow as individuals and form a supportive partnership.

However, to achieve this you will need to be willing to continually move towards your partner and maintain the communication, even when they are behaving badly. Remember bad behaviour is always a sign of a deeper level of emotional pain and can be the cue for you to show compassion. This is what emotional maturity is all about. As you gain trust you will learn to work through your shared concerns and anxieties about the relationship and build a lasting partnership.

If you give the relationship a chance and try to work through those first 'issues' that arise you will be in a much better position to assess the truth of the relationship.

I'm BACK!!!!!!!

Almost 2 year plus i never update my blog here, in between this 2 years have a lot of things happen on my life, my life is totally changing on this pass 2 years.....leaving is most important to make a people change. Time change, Things change, people change........

Know a guy on facebook, the guy convince me and finally fall in love deeply with him. When we together a lot of my friends, colleague told me he is not a good guy and he is player but dont' believe them i just believe him and trust him. This relationship is reli make me almost get crazy, lost myself, not logically love him and in the end broke off on last 2 weeks..........write until here the sadness heart is coming back. I took this guy is a future or the last guy i meat decided to staying down, but is just 11 months we cannot click together, compromise and break off. I never regret i fall in love him, but for him----his not, he hate me and found a lot of reason to pointed me. Now I know if a man the heart is die, he will find a lot of reason want to break off with you and all the reason he giving actually is a small matter and we can solve it by ourself. This is reli make me disappointed and finally let him go. A deeply hurt is make me grow up and mature.......is not memory for him anymore but is still on my memory, i'm human is not cool animal i have emotion, if i tell u i can totally forgot is lie to you, i reli need time to recover, but i tell myself i need to recover fast!!!!! maybe is good for me i no need to give him scolding like mad, no need to see their family face, i can do back myself. I more like people pamper is not scolding. I know myself i'm not the bad temperament person, i'm soft and gentle, this is all from my parent. From baby till now my parent all pamper and treat me like a princess, i totally dont' know how to cook and no chance enter to kitchen cook and wash cloths, maybe this is my weak point, a lot of guys like girlfriends know to cook and take care of them, but i really not the type, but for him i really will learn, learn for anything but he not appreciate me......haih....anyway everything is end, all the beautiful things is become memory......

Meekee Birthday Dinner @ The Curve Bubba Gump Rest

Meekee birthday is coming so 3 of us, Malaysia S.H.E. ( hihihi dun knw peiseh wan...) decide to have a dinner on The Curve Bubba Gump Rest. food is veli nice suitable for me because all is the fried fried food, 2 sister know i like the fried fried food.. ( aiyo fat ler ). I ate before when i have trip to Bali, so when Sue Sue mention this restaurant i already know this is a Bali restaurant.

I try to touch the logo.

Two sister Meekee and Sue Sue

Hihi...Run Forrest Run...

Yummy yummy food, this is what we order

Bali Trip

Travel to one of the most enchanting destinations in the world ?- Bali, Indonesia on May 2008.
Bali's wide variety of attractions, the astonishing physical beauty of the island, the year-round perfect climate and friendly people make Bali a place regarded by visitors and inhabitants as pure paradise. My friend all told me bali is the best place for honeymoon and suitable for couple, but this time i go for company trip next time maybe should go with my honey liow. hihihi...

My colleague playing at the sea

Second and third day activities is all in the field and visit farm.hi hi take the leng leng pic on the farm first. Is very nice place and the air was veli fresh.

Rice Field

Tropical Rain Forest

Bumbu Bali Restaurant, decoration, design is same at Bumbu bali Malaysia nothing special also, but the foods is nice.

My New House

My parent new Semi-D house at Bandar Nusaputra nearest Puchong Sepang, is ready and we can move in on anytime, but my parent say was to far they decide to sell it and consider on PJ area they say PJ is very convenient. So my new house, dream house............make soup liow....anyone interested? please call 012-xxxxxxx. tq.....

Levi's Lady Style

Jeans will always be a fashion trend. Even the old time popular jeans maker - Levi's is able to keep producing up-to-date style, cut, and color like in the latest Lady Style collection. Levi's Lady Style already for sale in Taiwan, Japan, and other parts of Asia, They are great fits, lovely, and sexy. Levi's Lady Style is my favour jeans, now they already come out for few new design Pencil fit, Skinny fit and Slim fit. In Taiwan they invited famous singer Ms. Jolin Tsai to promo thier new collection Pencil fit, Skinny fit and slim fit.






Levi’s Lady Style cuts bring out sexy femininity.

Levi’s Lady Style cuts two arresting new looks this spring/summer to reveal the irresistible silhouette of a lady and her alluring sensuality. The collection will highlight slender silhouettes, especially with the season’s mix of hot wide-leg and skinny jeans, and variety of tops, bottoms, and glam accessories.

This season, the secret in flaunting legs lies in pairing off skinny jeans with voluminous tops. At the same time, riding on the emerging trend of the wide-leg bottom, the new wide-leg jean will accentuate slim silhouettes and bring out sexy femininity. With these two arresting looks that play on proportions and shapes, ladies in Levi’s Lady Style will be able to strut anywhere with style, sophistication and confidence.

Wide-leg jean - The wide-leg jean rides high on your waistline, giving the illusion of a smaller waistline with a flat, sleek front through the v-shaped front yoke. At the same time, the widening of the jean, from the hips and thighs all the way to the bottom of the jean, emphasizes long legs.

Low rise skinny tapered jean

Ladies can also go for an ultra-slim cut with the low rise skinny tapered jean for yet another look that showcases irresistible style and sexiness. Voluminous tops are a perfect layering match, drawing attention to the slenderness of the legs.

The Levi’s Lady Style range of skinny jeans are made with fabric of a bi-stretch material that allows freedom of movement and comfort. This material will reveal the alluring contours of a woman, providing an impeccable fit for the bottom.

In addition to the skinny and wide-leg jeans, the Levi’s Lady Style collection promises new, exciting looks with its varied offering of jeans in mid- and low-rise; in straight, tapered, stacked, bootcut and flared silhouettes; and shorts in high-waist, mid- and low-rise.

Besides the usual mid- and dark toned finishes for that touch of style and class, bottoms have also been introduced in bleached, washed and acid finishes, inspired by looks prominent in the 50’s, 60’s and 70’s. Embrace the summer spirit with the hot, fun summer colors – raspberry pink, ginger white, sunfaded pink and yellow – that have been injected into the color palette. All in all, there will be a color suitable for any mood and occasion that will portray sexy glamour and charm.

Embroidery details, Swarovski pearl and crystal embellishments, rhinestone rivets, glitter buttons and sundries in gold, soft matte silver and elegant black are style details that jazz up the jeans’ irresistible feminine appeal.

Razzle-dazzle with Accessories - This season, razzle-dazzle with crystallized fashion jewelry and accessories from the Levi’s Lady Style collection. Bring on the glitz and glamour with a pair of black earrings and silver necklace made up of eye-catching crystals, or go for a crystal-studded Levi’s Lady Style watch in white or black leather, or stainless steel strap.

The Levi’s Lady Style Spring/Summer 2008 collection of bottoms, including the high waist wide-leg jean and low waist skinny tapered jean, matching tops and accessories are now available in Levi's store across Asia.